Hey pal, I was just teasing hoping it would prod you into coming out of hiding. smile

It sounds like things are progressing normally for your sitch and that you are taking it slow. The C may be able to help you get over the hang up with the OM appearance.

I've read that more often than not, when an A happens, its usually someone below the WAS's "grade". My guess is a WAS wants a quick fix for their confused emotions and that some one below their grade is a quick and easy pick up and that they don't have to work as hard at it. And I also guessing that if the WAS has someone below their grade that they are probably showered with affection, compliments, gifts etc because the OM is so darn excited to have a chance. But I could be way off base, it's happened once or twice. wink lol

Glad things are going well for y'all and that you are starting counseling.

Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012