Another question - H always complained that I was not confident and did not flirt. OW is a huge flirt. I know that I should probably not flirt with H (right?), but should I just try and act really confident and bubbly when we are around others and/or even when we are alone with the kids? I actually feel pretty confident right now and am proud of the changes I have made. But I find myself trying to be more reserved so that I am just a friendly neighbor. Not sure how to balance the two?
