Wife said she was done! House sold, Moving forward

[Maritimer]

Still having my good and bad days. I do great until I have to go over to her place to see the kids. The coldness, talking down to me tone of voice really gets to me, then Im bummed out thinking how challenging co-parenting will be in this type of atmosphere.

It has been a year since the BD and her attitude towards me has seemed to worsen. DB'ing has really helped me but relationship wise it feels more distant. I realize all I can do is become the best person I can for me & the boys, and except that she doesn't want me in her life.

Due to the kids I can only go so dim. never any relationship talk, just ask how the boys last few days were and just get 1 word answers, no details at all.

Doing my best to be more accepting to my aloneness and not dwell in loneliness.