Well I'm not sure if I did a good job already with the 180. Definitely not no contact. H called and I didn't answer.(good) H left a message and I returned the call a little while later. He didn't answer so I hung up. H call back and asked if I needed help with the kids tonight since they had to be two places at one time. I said I could probably do it,it was not a problem but thanks. H said I will take D to gymnastics and you can take capital S 2 his banquet. I said that was fine thank you. Very nice and cheerfully. H said that he got off early and was going to do some other side work and then come to get her. I said we were going going to have dinner before if you wanted to join us.H also mentioned he was so tired due to working all day yesterday and being up at 4 this morning. I sent him a text saying if you wanted to come here and take a nap instead of going home and then back here for dinner and pick up D he could do so. He that he could do with side work another day this week. That's probably where I went wrong because that's something I always do suggest. Although he did text back and say thank you I'll see how it goes. I also shouldn't have invited him for dinner. But being nice and not arguing is a 180 as well.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
