actually you are right we were supposed to telephone tonight.. I think he is not going to and you know what.. it is bit sad but i am not devastated.. I hvae had a long but productive day at work a good friend wrote offering supportby travelling 5 hours to stay with me and my goof ball dog loves me more than ever.. good thought and somehow I have signed myself up to train to run a half marathon!!!!! really I amsure that was in the fine print... so need to change that signature thanks