I don't understand what you mean about me loading him down with my baggage? I do think there is an emotional crisis going on. What man who is such a family guy dedicated to his wife and kids turns into a bar maniac. Going out till all hours of the morning.

I guess I just don't know how to handle that? Do I sit him down and talk to him about it? Do I act as if?

I'm just really puzzled as to what to do because he isn't leaving, he isn't talking about leaving (seriously). I think he jokes about it because he is a control freak and likes me under his power. But I'm lost as to how to react. What's right and what's wrong.

This is just so different than last time

And he goes through such up and downs. This morning he was affectionate with me and hugging and kissing and saying thank you every five minutes for everything I did.

I'm trying not to let it affect me and just keep on keepin on but I can't help but wonder what I should be saying or doing in these circumstances.


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14