I have the added bonus of re-reading my old posts from 2007. No good I am doing it again but it is helpful.
This just hit me as funny. H said 2007 he broke it off with OW because of too much drama with me. He also told her he loved her too. I am thinking he is the one to say "I love you" first and thinks that excitement, newness, etc is LOVE??!!
It is crazy how after all these years what he is saying is the same. (someone posted because it worked for him). I hope I can use this to my advantage and work it better and not take 8 months like last time. No guarantee but I can only try!! Then when/if it does work I/we do things better this time and he will get help for himself! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...581#Post1082581
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
