My mum has been really supportive too. Sometimes she gets so frustrated that she can't 'fix' it... I imagine it must be hard on them to see their daughters going through this... I pray this will not be my daughters journey.
I agree about keep real feelings close to the heart and only a few select people know the truth.,everyone else..? ' I am great thanks... I do wish only happiness for H'
It is kind of hard sometimes because I live in a fishbowl.. So ya probably a small blessing that h took his shannigans to another country.
On a personal note- h left amidst heavy and loud tears of S9. D 6 keeps it all in. I kept it together... But was sad inside. Sad about it all. H called to make sure the kids were ok. Of course my feelings don't matter or are acknowledged. I am used to it now.
Today I had this flash of just initiating a divorce. It scared me he way it felt... Freeing, hopeless, not patient, giving up.
These small 'steps' I have spoken about almost make me feel more hopeless
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
