Ambivalent, Your h has noticed the changes and he may or may not say anything about them. He may be wondering and asking himself "why now" is she doing this. When it comes to the MLCer we really do not know what goes through their heads at any given time. He could be waiting to see if these changes are permanent or just to win him back. Time will tell...but you can be assured he notices.
As for his behavior, he's the typical MLCer and w/the holiday here, he may be busy w/his own life, i.e., work, social activities, etc. He also may be texting versus calling because he saw and enjoyed Thursday so much that he now needs to be some distance between you because he doesn't want to feel those warm and fuzzy feelings or he doesn't want to give you any indication that he may come back. See...their minds are in a whirl and we can't assume anything.
You are going to have a few good days this week to spruce up the front of your house and decorate for Christmas before it rains by the end of the week. Enjoy the warmer weather, take some walks w/your little furry creatures and relax a bit.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
