Back in the loony bin. H was stomping around house being really loud. I have been avoiding him all night but I was concerned about him waking s so asked him what he was looking for. He growled "my phone. " I knew exactly where it was. If he wasn't being so loud I would have left it but it seemed better for me and s to get it. Got it and gave it to him and he grabbed it like it was the most precious thing in the world and slammed the door in my face.

I am sure he thought I looked at it which I did not. And I think I practiced a little detachment. I thought "Oh you must be drunk and how awful it must be for you to be keeping so many secrets. " But I didn't say a word and notice that I am really not too bothered by the incident.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15