Just went to tuck in boys and W again didn't move out if her bed. This has been going on over a week now. This is one of the newest developments in her depression. As I type this, one of the boys called to her and she wound up saying GN to both.
Her spending is out if control. Burned through bill money so I'll have to use Christmas bonus money for bills now. Svcks.
I am sorry for you JFun. I know how crummy it is to feel like nothing in their old loves matters anymore 97% of the time. I guess I am lucky that my H is still spending a somewhat manageable amount of money... we SHOULD be able to still pay our bills, but he is spending as if nothing else pressing will come up and we have already been putting off getting our roof reshingled for over 6 months. We would certainly be better off NOT spending this money on silly crap like eating out.
I am sorry your W is cutting into the Christmas nestegg and you will have to spend some of it on bills. I'm trying to hold out hope that my H will at least make sure Christmas is still nice for our son, I am not expecting he will spend anything on me, which [censored]. But better to have no expectation and be surprised with something, than expect something and get nothing.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."
