My bride has gone from uber mom to completely dropping the ball on emotional responsibility for our boys. She won't tuck them in at night, which used to be our ritual. If they want to see her at all, they must go into MBR and get on the bed with her. It's almost like she's got a terminal illness and is bedridden. She still drives them to and from school because she works there and really has no choice. S12, S10, & I have played a lot of 3 man games together over they past few months. In fact, S10 & I picked out Christmas tree tonight after I took him to play practice, then S12 helped me trim, straighten, & place it in the house. This would have previously been a full family activity. Not so now.
Just went to tuck in boys and W again didn't move out if her bed. This has been going on over a week now. This is one of the newest developments in her depression. As I type this, one of the boys called to her and she wound up saying GN to both.
Her spending is out if control. Burned through bill money so I'll have to use Christmas bonus money for bills now. Svcks.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13