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[tigerlily78]

I am afraid if I ask about it he will perceive it as pressure or just evidence of what a greedy horrible person I am. I may just have to bite the bullet on this one. H spent money this weekend while "gone" it will be interesting to see if ANY of it was Christmas shopping, or if it was just more self indulging or buying guilt gifts for the OW. Trying real hard to not assume until I see what he spent it on, or don't.
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I wish I had some insight into your H's changing behavior... is it possible that now that you are having more positive in person interactions he is just less needy/excited for the other kinds of interactions? *shrug*

I will say I am also thankful for electric heaters.

Remember, the changes you are making are MOSTLY for you. Don't worry if no one takes notice, YOU know you are making great changes. In time your H will see it too, I think it is just hard for them in their current state.