Wife says she wants to leave

[SM34]

You went out with the boys, and then came back happy. If i were a WAS I think I know what I would be thinking!

Then when you didn't pursure, didn't act needy, didn't follow her around looking for validation, you made her wonder even more.

Then when you were anxious to see your daughter but not necessarily the wife, that added even more mystery.

Then, you focused on being an awesome father, and that (I have been told by many women) is the most attractive thing a father can be.

THEN, to to top it all off, you were not concrned about her moving downstairs and you didn't jump at the chance to spend time with her!!

AWESOME JOB!!

Now keep it up. Remember, you are so cool and so attactrive that it HURTS. That is a line from 'A mans guide to good relationships and marriage', and is a line that stuck with me.

There is a lot you can read about body language that will blow you away. Women get hit on tens of times a day and learn to read subtle cues from body language that tell them how confident and self assured you are before you even open your mouth.

Here is anothed one I like. When you sit down to talk to her, spread yourself out to take up as much space as possible. An alpha male sticks his legs out infront of him and sits back in his share with an open chest. A shy anxious man sits hunched over with his head down, and legs bent and tucked under hus chair. How are YOU sitting right now? Yup, thought so. Sit back! You are a cool dude!