Thank you all for the support. It was a rough morning. My babysitter brought s to have lunch with me and when I got home we had a nice night. H got home and actually acted human for a few minutes but then seemed to remember he wasn't supposed to be nice. The speed of turn around was almost funny.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15