X's H was the "other man". He came into their lives when DS was 5, DD was 7. DS says he can hardly remember X and I being together (there are pictures ).
Legal action thus far has been property related, I have responded to X's lawsuit. My L took opportunity to get X 's arrest in the record (L's strategy). Action on custody has not begun yet, am told will be lengthy and drawn out.
In meantime X has kids 24/7. Seeing them/spending time with them is problematic. I tried three time this week to have them. Rejection each time. When it appeared there would be a time for me to have kids and I agreed, X created complications/need for changes which I could not comply. Result: I leek bad, kids are angry with me.
Each time is an emotional roller coaster for me ( as well as kids I am sure).
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.
