Hey BG sorry you are having a rough day. This is where that detaching everyone talks about comes in. Your day and your mood isn't dependent on his words and actions.

My H is really angry at me as well for finally making changes he claims he has been talking about for years. I have to keep reminding myself that it is his problem if he doesn't like it ir doesn't believe me. .. And then get back to what I am doing for myself.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15