It certainly is a process Rick. But, after 7 plus months of this I am detaching more and more. It is hard to not reach out even still. I just keep putting in my mind though how I now realize there isnt much I can say to budge her from her coldness towards me. She only responds to my statements and absolutely nothing more.
I know I am getting tired of this treatment also. First completely blindsiding me then iceberg me like its the southpole. Yea, I'm tired of it by now...Now that I have relocated been busy and really starting to get a life. And I understand what your saying about spending half your adult life with someone only to be let go so strongly (for lack of a better word).
For myself, I have put this all in God's hands. It will be whatever he chooses it to be anyways.
