You know today I was going through old emails and saw exw correspondces regarding paperwork for the divorce. They go back to 2011. Her responses were so cold. Hard to believe this from someone I had spent more than half my adult life with. We haven't spoken to each other for well over a year. Things get better and the normal feeling comes back lil at a time. Once you get over the need to rescue her. The feelings of guilt diminish. She made the choice. Your choice should be to have a great life. Yes it takes time to not want to reach out. It's a process.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden