I often think that we we feel as anger is often turned into that from fear, sadness, grief and frustration.

I like to be pretty circumspect with everyone except my closest friend. You never know what gossip gets bandied about. Let's say things are going as smoothly (relatively) as they are now and H hears out of context that you are angry from someone else...not you.

I am not saying you don't have the right to be p*ssed. I think we all do on occasion, but is this how you would want H to hear of your feelings? You've worked too hard and come too far picnic sister.


And Hoo boy, I agree with Cadet...it seems like we are the crazy ones... wink