oh heavens, I'm sorry that Thanksgiving deteriorated into a shouting match, but I have noticed that the MLCers don't seem to remember these much or hold them against us as much as a "normal" man would. It has happened over and over with H and me, some blow out or other, and I am SO nervous about facing him afterwards, but he acts like nothing has happened. Maybe it's that MLC memory loss? And I'm so glad that your H did a 180 in his actions yesterday.
I like that you at least temporarily held to your ML boundary (although I don't think I could have lol) and the list of things you want! How nice of him to let you know that sex with OW is not "terrible" LOL - my H says the Russian is "nothing special" in that department! And ummmm, that you gave him something to compare her to next time he's over there! She'll be down to a 3 any minute now, I just bet !! I WAS wondering what Rose meant by "I think, once in a while, it's good to "blow".....just so everyone knows where everyone stands" though LOL! The TG fight or making up the next day?
He does seem to be having moments of clarity, TL. I think taking it "one day at a time" is a pretty detailed plan, as far as MLCers go! And good job validating his " I thought that I would be feeling better because of this" speech, that he realizes everyone is suffering except for OW!
I laughed and laughed at your description of H sheepishly going out to the car every hour to bring in another poinsettia! Too funny! And laughed at you writing that you are thankful for our giant attention spans! Sounds like you had a good day, sorry you are missing him so much today.
As Nero would say, thank you and drive thru.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17