I was trying to catch up on your sitch. You seem really level headed and clear about how to handle this ugliness. That is very inspiring!
I am really impressed with how you deal with your H. And that you actually get feedback from him.
This is so hard on the kids...good on you to give time to son to decompress. The effects on the kids is the hardest part of this for me.
Hope the cocoa warmed you both up and that you enjoy the video game or movie tonight.
Stay strong and stay positive.
Busting xx
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home