TL thank you for your post.

I think this is a very good response

I think you could lend come clarity to the situation with your GFs by explaining you ARE angry, but you have chosen not to let that anger rule you, you are not going to let it stand in the way of what you want, you are not going to hang on to it and make it your focus...

I will remember it for the next time this comes up...

I hope you are well.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home