I can tell you that based on other conversations, W feels little excitement for life period. She feels trapped and stuck, and this has little to do with any potential future health issues. So my guess is her answer to the above question would be "I've got nothing great in my life, feel nothing great for you, and see little hope for anything better".
She's only still here because she has no better options. "Everyone has to have food and shelter" she told me one time. I guess I'm good at helping provide that in a comfortable enough, pressure free atmosphere.
Almost identical to where my W is. She wants no responsibility. She doesn't want to wash clothes, wash dishes, pay bills, put kids to bed, etc, etc, etc. She has not been to a GYN since our second child was born over 10 years ago. She has invited me to leave on numerous occasions. She has no other viable option.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13