A twist on cake-eating & dropping a bomb of my own

[tigerlily78]

Yes, I think letting him initiate texts except when you need to contact him out of necessity is probably better. That puts it back on him to draw closer again.

I know it is funny about the texting. My H HATED cell phones and never wanted one until his MLC and getting an OW... now it is such a pervasive presence. He is behaving exactly like all those people he used to complain about who were annoying and disruptive in their phone habits. :P