I tell ya, maybe it is just me but one day my wife says she wants us to work on our marriage and she is very close and loving, the next day she is distant and says she has to get her life on track. I usually let her callshots, make the phone calls, etc. Not pushing her in any form, when I have recommended we get together she has excuses so I just let her make arrangements. But I tell ya this seesaw effect is crazy. Go forward, go in reverse, then forward again. Attempting to see some pattern to something I may be doing but at this point I can't put my finger on anything
