A twist on cake-eating & dropping a bomb of my own

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H's primary means of communication has become texting. The funny thing is, a year ago he wanted nothing to do with texting. I prefer that old fashioned thing called a telephone, but he wants to text for some reason.

He leaves his phone on at night because he is usually asleep when we are working here - there is nearly a 12 hour time difference. He wants to be available if something important comes up that we need him for in the business. (On a weekend, I don't know).

There hasn't been a lot of communication between us for months when he is gone. He said that was going to change. But, so far, he keeps blowing me off. I will just stop trying and go back to letting him initiate.

I think TigerLily is right ... he needs to distance again. Plus, I gave him a lot to think about regarding his request for a D. It's probably best to STFU and let him sort it all out on his own.

Hugs to you, too, my MLC sister.