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[kat727]

I suppose you are finding the sort of person you are comfortable with, one that doesn't have a lot of time to give you. Then you are kind of wanting to change the rules of the game and shape it into something more.

2.5 months isn't very long especially since that means you have only seen each other maybe 10 times. You are only getting to know each other, why bring family into it? Let's also look at it another way...you are not divorced. Why would he want to give his heart to someone that isn't fully available? I would question yourself as to why you haven't moved forward with ending your marriage, but certainly wouldn't do it just to be available. There is something that isn't finished. Why would you try to be involved with someone that is so vulnerable?

You attract what you are, is this the type of person that you want?

kat