sorry, I guess I misunderstood Pud. My H has no self confidence either. Our poor, depressed, insecure Hs. Reaching out to these OW when all the love and admiration they might need is right there at home. Oh well.

I'm glad your H seems to be thinking. I thought my H was thinking LOL when he delivered his last R lecture in October, but has become much more withdrawn and sad since then. Oh well.

Onward and upward Pud. Detach! Charge!

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17