That kind of thing could backfire. My h told me he had checked out that over 50 dating site to see what kind of men I might find there! I think if I got involved with someone else, he would see it as justification for what he is doing and as a way to relieve his guilt.
I don't think I would go there unless I was serious about it.
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013