I think if it was just an A and not a MLC, that kind of wake-up call is okay. I mean, we want them to realize they are messing up a good thing, dump the OP and come back to reality.
With MCL though, I'm not so sure. They have to complete the journey, I think. I shocked my h back to his senses 7 years ago by packing a bag and leaving for a week without telling him where I was. When I got back, he wanted to put things back together, but he never really committed to that and here we are again. I think when you interrupt their journey, they will sometimes pick up where they left off at some later date. IDK - it seems like my h did.
I'd like to hear some other opinions on this one. We want them to realize we are where they want to be, but is a shock back to reality good or bad?
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013
