Still trying to get up that great Big Hill...

[RosaLinda]

Hi Pud, just catching up (late as usual LOL!) I can understand what you are saying, that you want your H to love you and want to be with you just because.... However, you are forgetting that he is in a MLC, and is not thinking clearly here. I have heard that sometimes it takes a sort of shake up to wake the MLCers up out of their confusion. So maybe the fear that he might lose you would be enough to make him realize what he may be giving up for that FloorMop.

But on the other hand, I don't think you should try to play a game and date someone to get his attention. My friend suggested I get all dressed up and go out to a bar last week, to sort of shake my H up. Well I did not have the nerve to go to a bar alone, but went shopping for the food pantry. But my H did not even notice, not a bit, that I put on a nice skirt and 4" heels and left. His eyes did not even flick in my direction. uRw told me that he could see right thru my ruse, because it WAS a ruse.

Also I sort of do not approve of married people dating. And it might not be fair to some guy who might really like you if you were only dating him to get your H jealous? Just some muddled thoughts, sorry.