A twist on cake-eating & dropping a bomb of my own

[2Times2Many]

Thanks, AJ. I am not changing my plans, although I'm not sure I want him here in the house without me. Hopefully, he doesn't change his flight without consulting me first.

I wouldn't take the text personally. I would almost say this is an intentional effort on his part to reclaim his distance. You had an intimate experience, you send him a nice text... the "MLC Dance" pretty much calls for him moving back away in response.

I think you are so right, Tiger. He has complained several times that I don't text him when he's gone, so this morning I did. Just a simple good morning, nothing more, in an effort to give him what he asked for. He took 3 hours to respond and then said he was sooooooo tired and was going to bed - his code for don't text me.

I think from here on in, he will have to contact me first.