I'm a used book store/thrift shopper. I've rarely been in a thrift store that I haven't seen a copy of the book. You might want to check that out. Or the library.

Newcomer's mtgs are great because you see and begin to understand that you're not alone.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss