I'm sending a card and present to my MIL and that's it Even if they send me one, which I doubt anyway, I'll still not be sending one. It's not that we've fallen out, but I've got to cut down this year anyway. F is right, worry about the invitations when you get them. You can always put other plans into place so that when you do get asked you can say sorry but you've made other plans.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!