Am I? I feel all over the place. If I was asked out , would I go? I don't know. I don't think I am doing an admirable job. I think I'm just stuck.
I didn't say it was easy.
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I think I want to have an experimental time too. What if the grass IS greener and I've wasted what health I've got hanging on to the hope he'll see the light?
You've got time. Don't panic like your H! Just talk to people, learn how to politely thank and say no.
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The women I know all filed for divorce.
Good for support. But they can also have a skewed attitude.
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Swing dancing has allowed me access to a huge group of people, men and women. I tend to be leery of any men my age...MLC is rampant, and the LAST thing I want is another MLCER in my life!
That's often the problem with meeting venues beyond college. The kind of guy you want is rarely there because he's at home with his wife and kids.
Have you ever heard the advice for middle age women looking for a man who is loyal and adores women? The problem, of course, is that they all got hitched young and stay with their women. The solution -- go to the cemetery and wait for a man to place flowers on his deceased wife's grave. Then chat him up.
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The swing dancing really has been something great for me.
That sounds really great for many reasons. But eventually you will want to broaden your activities because you tend to get the same crowd showing up all the time for a particular kind of event.
I also know women who never found what they wanted in events that tended to attract mostly outgoing people. So they turned to have friends recommend friends, or more specialized websites for their ethnic group, religion, etc. and found someone special.
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It is awesome exercise and eventually I'll branch out and go to the different venues offered.
Yes, exercise is extremely important. Great for fighting depression too.
