I think be really wants out again and is too scared to say anything. So he is beating himself up on the inside.
Stop trying to read his mind. You are so mired in these dysfunctional behavior patterns that I don't think you even realize you do it.
Why would he be too scared to say he wants out? He's said that he wants out before; he even moved out for a few months, if I remember correctly. So what would stop him now?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
