You're doing an admirable job standing by your man. You're doing more and better than most women would. That's a compliment. I just wonder if your husband deserves it. He doesn't know how lucky he is.
Am I? I feel all over the place. If I was asked out , would I go? I don't know. I don't think I am doing an admirable job. I think I'm just stuck.
I think I want to have an experimental time too. What if the grass IS greener and I've wasted what health I've got hanging on to the hope he'll see the light?
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Spend time with friends, and slowly cultivate new ones. Have some male friends too, but mature ones who you can talk to to get the male point of view and who understand your situation, respect your boundaries and don't try to have a hidden agenda. Some women don't believe such men exist, but they do. Avoid hanging out only with women who have been abandoned by their husbands.
The women I know all filed for divorce. Swing dancing has allowed me access to a huge group of people, men and women. I tend to be leery of any men my age...MLC is rampant, and the LAST thing I want is another MLCER in my life!
You know I've looked at Match.c and they are SOOOO easy to recognize.
They either post their motorcycles, sports cars, or are looking for a soul mate! It is so scary and so sad at the same time.
The swing dancing really has been something great for me. I don't have to go if I don't want. There are times I really want to go. It has been more and more. I am getting better every time I go. There is no person I'm attracted to, so it is very comfortable to be at the lessons and the Fri. dances.
It is awesome exercise and eventually I'll branch out and go to the different venues offered.
The only thing that saddens me, is the fact that my H. put dancing on his profile for a meet up group. He NEVER danced, didn't want to . I ALWAYS loved dancing. This hurts SO SO much.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
