OK Labug and Mach1, I thought about it and took your comments to heart. I broke things off with other woman and have decided that I need to wait and let things play out with my ex-wife and also to get my life back on track.
As far as my now ex wife goes. I sent her a text on Thanksgiving and she responded. Then Friday night I text and asked if I could stop by for a few min. She said sure. I dropped off our Christmas tree so she and the boys could have it to put together this weekend. She invited me in and offered a glass of wine. We sat and chatted for about 15 min. Nothing earth shattering but it was a nice fun talk. I told her I was going out with a friend and thanked her for the wine and left. It was nice to see that she still have photos of my girls and I hanging by her front door.
I intend to focus on getting my life in order and figure out how to be happy with myself.
Thanks
M-45 W-44 2D - 11&13 2SS - 11&17 Married 10/10/10 Bomb 3/5/12 Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12 Back together 9/12 Seperated 6/13 Divorce Final 11/13/13