You cannot change who she surrounds herself with. They will all see divorce as the fastest way for her to end her pain and move on with her life so she will surround herself with enablers.
This makes all the more reason for you to become the best person you can be. Identify your weaknesses, what don't you want people to find out about you? Are you controlling? Do you have addictions? Do you need to be more spiritual? What is your baggage?
What are her complaints about the marriage? What can you do to break negative cycles and interactions? How can you react differently to get a different outcome?
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
