I felt bad when h used to say things that made me feel undeserving, asking too much, an annoyance to him as well as others. I will not accept that feeling now, because my ic is teaching me that i have perfectly good judgment. I can judge for myself what is unreasonable or undeserved.
Good for you, Ad.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss