Wondering if anyone has opinions:

My H and I are going to Retrouvaille this weekend. We agreed to this a few weeks ago. He seems committed to going, but very distant from me. Is it a good idea to go with our current sitch?

I don't know if this will help or hurt our relationship.


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014