Yes, I have asked. Even rang this morning, because it was his birthday. Explained why I texted the SIL the message. Advised him he had complete control over what he chose. No answer to what he is going to do.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.