Hey Pud,

I know how sometimes you just feel like you need to poke the bear with a stick to see if it growls. I know I find myself wondering if my predisposition towards getting into an arguments with my H isn't just about my being hurt/angry and as much about wanting to feel SOMETHING, rather than just that empty indifference that seems to permeate his actions most of the time. I know you just want to shake them and shout, "Don't you FEEL anything?!"

I am glad in the end your Thanksgiving turned out okay. Few of us are having the Thanksgivings of our dreams around here, but compared to what a lot of us experienced yours seems like it went pretty well. Be thankful. smile

How nice that he made chicken just for you, some might say it was considerate! Consideration! Woo! That's a good thing.

Aww. I am glad you are sneaking in some flirting and signs of affection and that he seems to be more receptive. Baby steps, but it seems like things are heading in the right direction more consistently for you. smile


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"Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."