The Road Not Taken

[Pudmuddle]

wow jf, she IS seriously trying to push your buttons. She wants to see if the old you will surface, so she can think ha i was right. But she won't see that will she? There is no old you, you have become the new and improved you.

It must be incredibly difficult for you to sit there and take all of that. From what I read you are doing so well. Very well. I can tell the things she is doing, lying around in bed all the time, retail therapy, ie. shopping for herself is the sign of a very depressed, sad person. She is getting her feelings out by spewing at you. Remember it is not you, you just happen to be the person closest to her. Hang in there JF.