I agreed with his complaints that I shouldn't have waited and I should have listened to his needs. I told him that I've done a lot of soul searching and I have no interest in continuing to miss out on so much. I told him that I've found my confidence again and I never want to go back to being that person.
He cried and brought up examples of when he'd want to do something and I would turn him down. I just apologized and told him I don't know what to say except that I 'get it' now.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014