Very interesting conversation with my WAH yesterday. One of his biggest complaints about me is that I am not spontaneous enough. I was a frumpy homebody.

Well lately I've been GAL-dressing cute and going out almost every night with friends/family. I didn't know my H took notice until yesterday.

He said I've become the wife he's always wanted. But he's not happy about it. He cried and begged the question "Why didn't you make these changes when I asked you to?"

He is very upset that NOW I'm making these changes. I think it's great that he's noticed these things. Is it normal that he's upset by them?

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014