Take not of this ^^^^

From the mouth of a woman!!

Be assertive, take charge, lead the way. If she responds negatively to affection you give out, brush it of as 'oh its your loss' type of thing. Dont say anything or ask why or how it makes her feel. Just go about your business as if you are the coolest person ever.

In fact, you are so cool and sexy and manly that it HURTS. that's the frame of mind you need right now.

Stop asking any questions about anything at all. Practice that. Be conscious if it. Stop yourself when you do it!!

Also practice talking much slower than you are used to and in a deeper voice. When she talks to you, look her in the eyes and don't let your eyes wander around. No fidgiting with your hands while you talk. If you need to blink, blink really slowly lol. Sounds funny but its true.

These things are all traits that strong men have. Right now you need to use language, body language, posture etc to show your assertive and dominant side. I can guarantee you that she sees you as submissive and its not helping her be attracted to you.

Practice makes perfect!


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017