thanks I needed that reminder about I can't control him..
I guess I am reacting to being disappointed because we were going to meet up..maybe it looked like pursuing though he suggested we meet but then I was on his side of the country.. ( not sure when he decided to divide up the country!) I had fun with my friends anyway
Good good advice.. I will reread these posts from today when I next start to set up my pity party for me..
I should be more patient I think with the conversations about the future. ( remember the rule about no future talk) Just have to set a boundary that chnages to bank accounts need to be discussed with me..
and a good reminder any positive interaction is a good thing.. I had sort of forgotten that one.. thanks for the good advice.. I needed that Loua
