Take a deep breath. Nothing is going to change this minute. Your impatience to get him back so you can pressure him in the new more effective way you found, is not what db is about. Follow through with the current plan by working on your own issues and letting h have space to figure out what he needs. When you interact show h a woman only a fool would leave. Blowing things up can happen fast, but repairing them cannot. It's going to take lots of time before your h could believe that marriage to you will be different and better than before.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
